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Wives and Good Treatment to Their Husbands

Wives and Good Treatment to Their Husbands Allah (s.w.t.) said: "And among His Signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts): verily in that are Signs for those who reflect." Sura al-Room, No. 30, Verse 21 When the Holy Prophet (p.b.u.k.) received some information from 'Umm Salamah about 'Uthman ibn Maz'un, he set out towards his followers and, (addressing some of them), said: "Do you keep away from (your) wives? Surely, I go to women, I eat food during the day, and I sleep at night. So, he who turns away from my way of life is not of me." Bihar-ul-Anwar, vol. 93, p. 73 Imam Sadiq [a] said: "He who abandons marriage for the fear of the expenses imposed on him, mistrusts Allah, Almighty and Glorious." Man La Yahduruhul Faqih, vol. 3, p. 385 It is narrated from Imam Rida [a] that Imam Sadiq [a], in answer to a woman wh

Honour Your Wives

Honour Your Wives Imam Rida [a] narrated from his fathers from Imam Amir ul Mu'mineen Ali [a] from the Holy Prophet [s] who said: "Woe to the woman who makes her husband angry, and happy is the woman whose husband is pleasantly contented with her." Bihar-ul-Anwar, vol. 8, p. 310 The Holy Prophet [s] said: "He who has two wives and does not treat justly in dividing his self and his wealth between them, he will be raised on the Resurrection Day while he is chained in punishment and half of his body is not straight until he enters Hell." Bihar-ul-Anwar, vol. 7, p. 214 Imam Baqir [a] said: "He who takes a woman (marries) should certainly respect her, because the wife of anyone of you is a means of your pleasure, so the one who marries a woman should not spoil or disgrace her (by disregarding her respectable rights)." Bihar-ul-Anwar, vol. 103, p. 224 Imam Amir ul Mu'mineen Ali [a] said: "In any condition conciliate the wives, and talk wi

Wife And Pleasing Her Husband

Wife And Pleasing Her Husband Imam Baqir [a] said: "No intercessor for a woman, on the Reckoning Day, is more effective with Allah than the consent of her husband." Bihar-ul-Anwar, vol. 81, p. 345 Imam Abi-l-Hassan-ir-Rida [a] narrates from Imam Amir ul Mu'mineen Ali [a] who said: The best women among you are those who have five qualities." Amir ul Mu'mineen [a] was requested what those five were when he said: She is easy-going, obedient, humble, and economical to her husband. She is good tempered to him. She is cooperative and helpful to him in difficulties. Whenever her husband is angry or depressed, she does not rest until she finds him happy and pleased. When her husband is absent from her, she protects his belongings in his absence. Such a woman is an agent of the agents of Allah and the agent of Allah will not be disappointed, (she gains her correct hopes)." Al-Kafi, vol. 5, p. 324 Imam Sadiq [a] said: "Any woman who spends the night

Admirable Qualities of Wives

Admirable Qualities of Wives The Holy Prophet [s] said: "There is no (believing) woman who gives her husband a glass of water but it will be rewarded her better than the worship of one year during which she fasts on days and keeps vigil during the nights." Wasa'il-ush Shi'ah, vol. 20, p. 172 The Holy Prophet [s] said: "It is to a woman to perfume herself with her best fragrances, wear her best clothes, and ornament herself with her best ornamentation in order to present herself available to her husband whether it is day or night." AI-Kafi, vol. 5, p. 508 Imam Amir ul Mu'mineen Ali [a] said: "The Jihad (fighting in the way of Allah) of a woman is to afford pleasant company to her husband." Nahjul-Balagha, saying No. 494 The Holy Prophet [s] said: "Allah, Almighty and Glorious, has said: 'Had I willed to gather the good of this world and the next for a Muslim believer, I would set for the one a humble heart, a thankful tongue,

Divorce and Its Effects

Divorce and Its Effects Allah (s.w.t.) said: "And when you divorce women and they reach their prescribed time, then either retain them in good fellowship or set them free with liberality, and do not retain them for injury, so that you exceed the limits; and whoever does this, he indeed is unjust to his own soul; and do not take Allah's communications for a mockery, and remember the favor of Allah upon you, and that which He has revealed to you of the Book and the Wisdom, admonishing you thereby; and be careful (of your duty to) Allah, and know that Allah is the Knower of all things." Sura Al-Baqarah, No. 2, Verse 231 The Holy Prophet [s] said: "Marry and do not divorce because the Throne of heaven quakes from divorce." Wasa'il ush Shiah, vol. 22, p. 9 Imam Sadiq [a] said: Allah, Almighty and Glorious, is pleased with the house wherein marriage takes place and is displeased with the house wherein divorce is found, and there is nothing with Allah more

Lowering the Gaze and Guarding the Modesty

Lowering the Gaze and Guarding the Modesty Allah (s.w.t.) said: "Tell the believing men to cast down their looks and guard their private parts, that is purer for them, surely Allah is well acquainted with what they do." Sura An-Nur, No. 24, verse 30 Imam Sadiq [a] said: "An unlawful look (at na-mahram) is an arrow from the arrows of Satan which is poisonous. He who abandons it for the sake of Allah, Almighty and Glorious, and not for something else, consequently, Allah will give him a Faith that he finds its pleasure (in his self)." Man La Yahduruhul Faqih, vol. 4, p. 18 Imam Sadiq [a] said: "The fornication of the eyes is the intercourse of unlawful (lustful) looks, the fornication of the lips is a forbidden kiss (of na-mahram), and the fornication of the hands is touching (hands or other limbs of a na-mahram), whether the response of the genital affirm it or disaffirms it ." Al-Kafi, vol. 5, p. 559 Imam Baqir [a] said: "The Holy Prophet [

Women and Ornamentation

Women and Ornamentation The Holy Prophet [s] said: "A man's word telling his wife: 'I love you' never will quit her heart." Wasa'il-ush Shi'ah, vol. 14, p. 10 Imam Baqir [a] said: "It does not matter what a women ornaments herseff with for her husband." AI-Kafi, vol. 5, p. 119 Imam Amir ul Mu'mineen Ali [a] said that the Prophet [s] prohibited the ornamentation of a woman for someone else other than her husband, and said: "Thus, if she does so, it is the right of Allah, Almighty and Glorious, to burn her in Hell." (Unless she repents.) Man La YahduruhuI Faqih, vol. 4, p. 6 Imam Sadiq [a] said: "Everyone who intensifies love for us (AhIul-Bayt) intensifies love for his wife, too." Wasa'il-ush Shi'ah, vol. 14, p. 11 The Holy Prophet [s] said: "The best of your women is the one who is pious and obeys her husband in lust and ornamentation (but is impenetrable for others)." Wasa'il-ush Sh